When you think of having a dog what do you envision doing with the dog? Of those things which do you view as things you "get to do with the dog " and which do you view as things you "have to do with the dog "? Rank them on a 5 to 0 basis. A five means "I want to do it. That's why I want a dog " A one means "I don't want to do it. I won't if I don't have to. " 0 - "I'd get rid of the dog before doing it ( or wouldn't get it in the first place) " A three would be neutral "I don't mind doing it, and I wouldn't mind if I didn't do it " Two and Four well . . . you know a "two " is something between "1 " and "3 "